Sep 7, 2011

Q&A: Is my Girlfriend Losing Interest being With Me?

By Clay Andrews


If you happen to be a guy and mulling over "is my girlfriend losing interest in me or our relationship?" then I have to say I'm impressed.

You see a lot of guys don't really bother with relationship problems until they become too big to be ignored. Following are the most common queries asked regarding the subject.

Q: Is my girlfriend losing interest if she has a new male friend? A: Although this isn't 100% true, some women tend to jump from one relationship to the next without too much "single life" in between. If she has this new "friend" which raises your suspicion then be very careful with the relationship. She might be ready to break up with you and merely testing the waters with a new guy.

Q: Is my girlfriend losing interest if she starts getting angry at me all the time? A: One of the things you should be on the alert for is if your girlfriend is starting to resent you. Resentment can be a very good indicator if a relationship will die down according to Dr. John Gottman of the University of Washington. Does your girlfriend act rude towards you all the time for no apparent reason Criticism is OK as long as you know where the limits are.

Q: Is my girlfriend losing interest if she refused making love with me? A: Something must be way off in this situation. There are actually very strong connections between desire and what a woman feels for you. If you have done something to damage her trust then be assured that her desire for you will also weaken. This could also mean that she is rethinking about the wisdom of staying in a relationship with you. Of course, there are other factors that you must consider during this situation. It's also possible that she is struggling with personal problems that are in no way related to you.

Q: What should be done if girlfriend is losing interest? A: If you think your relationship is about to end then this would be a good time to sit down with your girlfriend and talk things through in a calm and reasonable manner. It may be difficult to tackle some of the topics happening in your relationship. Its likely that there are some things you have been deliberately avoiding to raise in a conversation. Howeve, it would be better to talk about these things now before they become a bigger complication.

Formulate the system that would work for both of you. Keep in mind that this means compromise and not one person saying "yes" to everything else. With dedication and commitment on both your parts, a stronger and much more pleasing relationship will be forged.




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