Sep 6, 2011

Is Your Relationship On a Slippery Slope Because Your Wife Does Not Feel Loved?

By Sarah Scott


Now that your married, you do not feel as if you have to try really hard. If you don't show or tell your spouse how much you cherish her daily, chances are you're giving her lots of room to question your love. If you do let her know that you cherish her everyday and she still does not feel love, it's safe to say that she speaks a different love language than you.

Does Your Other half Need Confirmations to Feel Loved?

You can express your love to your wife by informing her how much she means the world to you. Other verbal expressions of love can be along the lines of "I love your cooking" and "out of every person in my life, you actually are the one I love most." When you use words to show somebody you adore them, add more depth and conviction to your words. Rather than informing her "I love you," also tell her WHY you cherish her. Many women who wants words of confirmations also want reasons why you feel that way. It will come off as more genuine and truthful when you let her know how you feel and give her a reason which explains why.

Does Your Other half Need Special Time Spent With You to Feel Loved?

All good relationships need quality to together to cultivate their love. This implies you take the time out of your busy day to spend time with her. Whether it's a charming dinner, walking at night, playing a game of chess together or other activities that the two of you can enjoy to do together.

When you spend time together, you are permitting open communication with your better half. When you and your spouse can speak without reservation and listen to each other, you are reinforcing your relationship.

Is Receiving Gifts Your Wife's Love Language?

People who see gift giving as an act of love aren't gold digging urchins. What comes to mind to a lot of people about present giving as an act of love is that you can't buy love. Well, for many people, the idea of giving is an expression of love and appreciation. Regardless of how much the price of the present (it may be a picked dandelion) your better half will connect that object to your expression of love. To your better half, your expression of love is more valuable than the object itself.

Does Your Spouse Desire Physical Touch To Feel Loved?

When referring to physical touch it's not just sexual intimacy I'm making reference to. If your wife loves to cuddle, kiss, snuggle, have her hair played with or hold hands in public, her first love language is touch. It's the feeling of being physically close to you that makes her feel loved.

Remember that many people have more than 1 primary love language. If you don't figure out exactly what is needed for your better half to feel loved, your relationship and relationship is in trouble.




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