Sep 9, 2011

3 Causes Why Marriages Result In Divorce - Are You Making Any of These Mistakes?

By Sarah Scott


Don't Let Boredom Ruin Your Marriage

Biologically, humans pick a partner for about 7 years before switching partners. Many couples find themselves growing bored with their spouse and finally grow distant with one another. Unless you and your spouse are introspective, and understand that the base of good relationships relies on each person's perception of the world, other people and themselves-- then your wedding might be headed for heartache.

Many couples who divorced say they grew apart because they did not take a bit of time to cultivate their relationship every day. Marriage is tough work. Due to everyday strains from work, college, children and etc...it can be truly difficult to take time out of your day to enjoy your time and connect to your other half.

You may not even notice that you're not satisfying your spouse's needs. You and your spouse loved each other at one point until negative emotions from stress got in the way. You can change the result of your marriage if you really and truthfully wish to change it.

Any wedding can be saved if both couples are committed to making it work. Couples who face adversity with bravery, strength and persistency can beat any challenges that dares to destroy their marriage. Your marriage will not always be as blissful as you would like but you can have a flourishing and successful partnership with your other half. Fight for your relationship fight it as if your fighting for your life. After all , you married your spouse with the intent of growing old together, that deserves a fighting chance, right?

Make Sure The Two Of You Win In All Your Fights

Great communication is an ability that many of us aren't born with. It requires practice to effectively and definitely express your thoughts and feelings. That's the reason why so many couples who divorce have a hard time communicating to one another (without it leading to a full blown fight). There are many people who hold their emotions in causing their feelings to worsen and before they truly express themselves. Holding your feelings in always result in being more destructive to your marriage in the longer term.

Are You and Your Partner Sexually Compatible?

Research have shown that many couples sex drive's strength is very similar to couples who are about ten years apart. Many couples nowadays are only a few years apart and once they have hit 30, it's common their sex drive to lower or they become sexually incompatible. If you and your spouse are having problems in the bedroom now, it may worsen over the course of the years unless you two do something positive about it now.

Relationship takes a lot of effort to keep the love flowing between you and your other half. There will be days your faith in love may be shattered but remember that if you cultivate the foundations of your relationship, nothing can break you two apart.

In order to save a failing marriage, you must work on your mindset to improve your relationship. Check out what Relationship Advice has to offfer!




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