Nov 23, 2011

Avoid This Mistake and You Will Get Him Back

By Dmitry Vasenyov


When you break up and want to win your ex back, you usually do any possible things. However sometimes instead of winning back together you see absolutely opposite result such as he stops returning to your calls and messages. To say the truth, there is one mistake you are making that is causing him to ignore you and if you want to get him back you need to fix it.

For the beginning, you have to know what the problem is. The key problem is that you cannot stop calling your ex. And in the majority of cases it is not as you are calling him to bed him to take you back. In fact, you are calling him just to say 'hi' and that is all. And of course, you think that there is nothing bad with this since you have agreed to be friends and friends always do so.

However, if everything is like this, why then did your ex stop talking to you? In fact, everything is very simple. You are making a great mistake by trying to keep in contact with him all the time.

If you want your ex back, one of the best techniques to do this is to use the rule of no contacts. Your family members and friends could be telling you this every time you want to analyze why he is not talking to you right now. Stop trying to talk to him if you want him to come back to you.

The rule of no contact works since it uses furtive reverse psychology. In other words if you want your ex back you have to act as you do not need him anymore. And if you are continuously texting, calling and emailing him, he is sure that you are sitting around waiting for him to call you. And only he is controlling the situation. However if you stop talking to him, this situation will be changed.




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