Oct 1, 2011

Find Out 3 Revealing Signs Your Ex Is Over You

By Clay Andrews


Your ex broke up with you and left a total train wreck. Aside from the emotional roller coaster ride your mind underwent, it also took a major toll on your body.

You have no clue whether or not they're over you though you've done everything you can to get your ex back.

There are some signs that your ex is over you. In the first place, bear in mind that your mind deforms your reality. Your mind will believe what it wants to.

Our mind sorts out our life in three ways, which are deleting, distorting, and generalizing. Your mind deletes and it does not process all things that you see. Your mind distorts- adds things to something that's not there. Your mind generalizes and puts everything into one category.

Examples are things like all men will break your heart, all homeless people are dangerous, and all Asians are great at math.

You don't wish your mind telling you that your ex is or isn't over you because your mind may be sifting it wrong. Nevertheless, here are 3 signs that most people present when their moving on from their ex.

Signs Your Ex Is Over You # 1: You Haven't Contacted Your Ex In Months

After a breakup, the first month is normally hard for both people involved. You both think you will often cross each other's mind. However, it's most likely your ex is moving on with their life if you haven't heard from your ex for a very long time, like 3 months.

Signs Your Ex Is Over You # 2: Your Ex Is Dating Someone Else Exclusively

Your ex will most probably compare their relationship with you to their present one even if your ex started dating someone new lately after your breakup. Your ex will still be thinking of you even when they're dating someone else. This explains why rebound relationships rarely work since your ex hasn't had time to heal from your relationship.

Chances are slim, however, that your ex may get back with you anytime soon if your ex is dating someone exclusively and they've been together for quite a while.

Signs Your Ex Is Over You # 3: Your Ex Has Expressed They Have No Feelings For You.

If your ex has purposely told you several times that they're over you, they want the two of you to move on with your lives. Can this get any clearer?

If your ex said "Move on with your life", it most probably means your ex is also trying to move on with life. Don't forget that these are just a few common signs that your ex has moved on with their life. Nevertheless, it doesn't necessarily mean that your ex HAS moved on with their life.

Every person and every breakup is a different story. These are some indicators that your ex is over you.




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