Sep 11, 2011

If my Partner Won't Cooperate, How Can I Make a Relationship Work?

By Clay Andrews


Q: I really want to fix my relationship but my partner seem reluctant. How can I make a relationship work if I'm the only one who want to fix it?

A: Working on saving a relationship without any help is always hard. After all, how will the relationship survive if your partner doesn't want to chip ip? Keep in mind that you only have power over yourself and not with your ex. Take the time to analyze your life and figure out how you really want it to go. Is staying with a reluctant partner really worth it?

Q: My partner looks reluctant on the relationship. How can I make a relationship work by reviving their interest in the relationship?

A: Everyone wants to be happy in their life. A good reason why they would not want to fix the relationship is because the idea too painful for them. By painful, this means that your partner has been running away from something and now needs to confront it. What you should do is let them know the benefits of putting your relationship one step forward. Tell your partner that you want to go back to that time when you were in love with each other. This type of approach would make it possible for your partner to have a change of mind.

Q: I feel as though we've tried everything. How can I make a relationship work if everything we did was a failure?

A: It's possible that nothing seems to work because the two of you are still at a misunderstanding. Make sure that your commitment to the relationship is something your partner knows firsthand. You might even try having a serious discussion about where they see the relationship in the future. Once a person realizes that you are on their side and not working against them, they will start to loosen up and open up about their personal problems.

So if you are having problems, try opening up to your partner and asking about their problems too. This is the fastest way that you can get a person's cooperation. Once they realize just how serious you are, they will be more than willing to discuss problems in order to turn over a new leaf for a stronger relationship.




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