Aug 2, 2011

What a Husband Must Learn When It Comes To Winning Back His Other half

By Sarah Scott


Women are picky creatures and yet men still love them. The majority of the time when a woman is mador upset at you, it isn't what you are think it's for.

It's commonly generalized in western society that women are a bag of feelings and men are depicted as giant unconcerned "oafs". Males and females can disagree on their view points of one another. I just know that women and men have different perceptions, thus different behaviors. This is when both sexes frequently appear to bump heads.

Many times, your wife won't communicate what she precisely feels and when you can't guess right what she's thinking, then you are in the "dog house." This is when you should begin to practice being more conscious of what is essentially going on around you. Does your wife do a lot of things for you that may be overlooked?

Here's where coming into awareness can really help you "wake up" to no matter what your wife feels you are not ignoring. When you both come back home from work, do you kick your feet up and relax while she prepares dinner, put the kids to bed, do mundane chores and clean the house? What you need to do is help her feel cherished, loved, appreciated and valued.

Be conscious of the things she does for you, even if you should happen to feel they're minor (like folding your underwear).

Bear in mind there are 3 things that most women desire.

1. Romance in their lives.

They'd like to feel cherished and loved. OK, we all know that deep down, women love to be romanced. They get romantic concepts of being swept off her feet. Everybody has a different perception of what love looks like but show your other half your romantic side. It doesn't have to be grand like what you see on TV. Again, the media does not help when it comes to realistic ideas of romance. You may be shocked at how a small romantic gesture can soften her up.

2. Feeling part of a great journey

Whatever you and your wife's story is, she wants to feel valued and cherished. Whether you and your wife's life consist of raising 3 kids and both work full time careers or traveling around the planet, your wife wants to feel appreciated and valued. When was the last time you embraced your better half and told her many thanks or that she is vital to you? If It's it hasbeen a long time, you should start today and begin showing your appreciation.

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3. To create beauty.

Why do girls put on makeup or wear jewelery, take up yoga, meditate, and agonized about their weight? Because girls want to feel stunning on the outside as well as on the inside. Do you help your other half feel lovely or at least let her know so? Do you give her compliments on how she looks or maybe notice the new outfit she is sporting? If not, this is another example of not being in awareness with your spouse.




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