Dec 13, 2010

How To Get Ex Girlfriend Back - 4 Steps

By Andree Dallas


It is really frustrating when you made a mistake and screwed up your relationship with your girlfriend. It will probably make you feel terrible about your self and your remorse will be bothering you every time. Don't lose hope because here is guideline that will help you get your ex back, but be careful, if you don't follow this guide the right way it will push your ex-girlfriend even more.

Step 1: You have to stop getting in touch with her, that's the very first thing you should do. This took place to me before, when my girlfriend ditched me I really don't know what to do. I started to call her regularly and try to tell her how I really feel. I thought that it was the right to get her back but unfortunately, it was not! It is clear that there is a reason why she departed you and wants to distance from you. She will be missing you ad she will want to contact you, if you give her time and space. This will tell you that it is possible to win her.

Step 2: Analyze your relationship and figure out what really went wrong rather than spending your time brooding about it. Perhaps there was something that you did or say that she did not like. Or the issue might be from her side. The problem might be both of became far too familiar with each other and the excitement and the passion were lost. All of these have to be considered. Once you've grasp what went wrong, then you can come up with a plan to make things proper and win her back.

Step 3: Whoop it up! Hang out with your good friends. This will make you feel good and much better. Comfort and ease yourself by having some drinks with your friends. Instead of stocking yourself in your home where you can't do anything. Just don't forget to stay away from calling her when you're inebriated you might say awful things to her, which will make it hard for you to win her back.

Step 4: Contact your ex girlfriend after giving her time to contemplate. Wait for at least two weeks before contacting her. If you followed the steps above I'm sure your ex-girlfriend probably contacted you. If not, don't make a big deal out of it and just call her and be casual. Approach her pleasantly and ask her if it's ok with her if take her out for coffee or something.

When you guys meet up, then tell her that you understand why the split up occurred, and tell her that it was for the good of both of you. Tell her that you have gained a new perspective in life and it's going alright with you. Let her know that your fine and handling the situation calmly. Let her know that you wish to be close friends with her and if it is ok perhaps you can see her every once in a while.

When you and your ex have established a harmonious accord then preserve a friendly association with her. Let her realize for herself that you are a great guy and why she loved you just before. After this it is easy to get her back. Once you're back in each others arms, make sure you learn from your mistakes in the past, treasure her and keep the relationship healthy.




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