Oct 1, 2010

Saving A Marriage From The Doom Of Divorce

By Mark Mitchell

You have been a single person all of your life and you are wanting to be married. This is a union that should be a union that the both of you understand is important, and will have a serious impact on the rest of your life. Half of all the marriages in America fail and end up in the divorce section of the newspaper. If you are wanting to be saving a marriage, then follow the advice in this article.

At first when you meet each other, the sparks fly and you are in love. Nothing else in the world matters. Eating food is not important as it once was, and the other facets of life seem to have lost their meaning. Then, after a period of dating, and things are going really well, you decide to become engaged and announce that you are getting married. Oh, what a decision.

After a while, it just seemed natural to want to become married. The feelings of love are overflowing and it just seems right. You stay engaged for a while, then you get married in a beautiful ceremony.

Things are going well for a while, then, all of the sudden, your marriage has hit a brick wall. You didn't even see it coming. You both argue, constantly, and the fights get worse. You argue about tiny things and now that there are kids in the family, even more responsibility.

You want to be divorced, and at the same time, you want your marriage back where it used to be. To do that, you need to focus your energy on you both, again. It is time to put worries of the world behind you and focus on what both of you meant to each other in the first place. Daily life can be a grind on a marriage, but, it need not be. It is time to get the spark that you both had back to the forefront.

Do this every day for a while. Marriage means you two are together, not apart. Allot some special time each day just for the two of you. This will begin to rekindle the spark that you two shared in the past.

Romance and love in a marriage is what marriage is all about. It is the sharing of love for one another. If you do not share you love for each other, your marriage may end up in failure. Physical love like making love to each other is a vital part of marriage. Kisses and hugs along the way don't hurt either.

Spend quiet times talking with each other. And, when you do this, listen. Not listening to each other, is one of the reasons that lead to marriage failure. If you are interested in saving a marriage, starting with yours, then follow some of the above advice.

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