Jan 12, 2012

How To Get Back With Your Ex Using Text Messaging

By Desiree Valle


Text messages are literally a "push button" solution which makes them super cool and appealing. Nevertheless it also means they can get you in trouble in a hurry if you aren't careful.

People are dependent on their cell phones. They have them at their side every minute of each day (even while they sleep). This gives you an amazing window of opportunity to seduce your ex into your life...if you know what you are doing.

5 Starting Points For Getting Your Ex Back Using SMS Messages

If you're going to use texts to get your ex back, there are some vital things to bear in mind.

1.) Get Together With Your Ex For The Proper Reasons

Before you begin to text your ex, you want to be sure you're getting back together for the correct reasons.

So , what are the correct reasons?

2.) Have Pragmatic Expectations

Learning the way to get your ex back using text messages (or any other method actually) needs time and work. It will need patience.

3.) Understand The Breakup And Have Clear Goals

Before you use texts to get your ex back, it is very important to see why you broke up in the 1st place and have clear goals for what you hope to realize by correcting the relationship.

4.) The "No Contact" Rule Still Applies

If you have read any relationship advice about how to get your ex back after a breakup, you have possibly come across the "no contact" rule. While many different variations of the rule exist, it usually states something like, "Never contact your ex after a split for at least a month."

5.) Never Utilise A "Nothing Text" To Initiate The Conversation

When you know what your goals are, it's time to send out that vitally important first text. A few things to keep in mind during your first few texts include:

Do not be needy or desperate.

It's ok (and normal) if you do not get a response.

Be positive and optimistic instead of trying to get into a serious conversation about the relationship right from the get go.

Certify your ex's feelings. Never tell your ex what they are feeling is wrong or stupid. They are entitled to feel how they feel whether or not you see things a different way.




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