Dec 31, 2011

Is Saving A Difficult Marriage Possible?

By Michael Van Etten


This article on how to save your marriage may be the best thing you read this year. A marriage is a very precious and sacred thing. After a few weeks, months or years of marriage, you may be beginning to sense some weakness. Welcome to the club; we've all experienced that.

Can Your Marriage Be Saved?

Honestly speaking, I don't know if it will be possible to save your marriage or not. What I want to do is give you some information that can give you the best chance of being able to save your marriage. There have been many marriages that have been restored and even gotten better by using some of the information that is in front of you.

Some Ideas To Help Save Your Marriage

When people are stuck, they need tips and advice. In this article you'll find some ideas to help you get your marriage unstuck from the state it is in. Make some plans for things you can do together. It helps if a couple has a shared vision of where they can go and what their marriage can become. Do you want your marriage to become happy, fulfilling, and peaceful? You should also set some specific ideas for your future. Maybe you'd like to go visit Fiji as a couple. Would you like to spend a week or two in New York City, enjoying the shopping and going to Broadway plays? Makes some plans like these, and then do things to build memories together.

Is Communication The Key To Saving Your Marriage?

Yes, communication is probably the best hope for your marriage. The problem with your marriage is disagreements, and you must discuss them to be able to work out solutions. If you can solve your problems, you can restore your marriage. This means that you really have to listen to your partner. There are two steps to solving problems. The first one is stating or describing the problem. The second step is then to come up with possible solutions and choose one that might work well for both of you. It's hard to solve a problem before you agree on what the problem is. Be sure to take turns when you're talking and listening. Also, when your partner is speaking, take notes.

Use Past Successes To Save Your Marriage

You two probably decided to get married for good reasons. You enjoyed doing things together, spending time together, and were probably physically attracted to each other. You wanted to spend your life together. In this difficult phase of your marriage, take time to look back and remember what drew you to your partner in the first place. It often helps to make a list of things that you like about your partner, and review it daily.

Think about those times when you laughed together, had fun, even the moments when you cried together. These are special times in your life, and it's important not to let them go lightly, or hastily leave the relationship in which they were built.

I hope these points will be helpful to you in your journey as you seek to improve and even save your marriage.




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