Nov 27, 2011

How to Deal If your Girlfriend Wants to Break up

By Clay Andrews


When it comes to your girlfriend, you should always be observant with everything she does. What she does would usually tell you about what she feels of the relationship.

If your gut tells you that your relationship is on the verge of breaking down, it’s important that you get on alert and look for the signs that your girlfriend wants to break up with you. Doing this, you will have the chance to prepare for any problems and stop the possibility of a breakup.

One of the top signs that your girlfriend wants to break up is when they no longer spend as much time with you. She no longer thinks of you as a priority. She always finds excuses not to spend time with you and tells you that she’s busy. Even if what she says makes sense, you still need to pay attention.

Your girlfriend’s friends will definitely be less friendly with you once your girlfriend starts to withdraw. They no longer interact with you. Usually, they will make sure not to talk to you and even if you do catch them, they will keep the conversation at a minimum. If your girlfriend is thinking of breaking up with you then there’s a good chance that her friends will know about it first. There’s a good chance that your girlfriend’s friends know a secret if they start acting funny towards you. Stay alert.

Your girlfriend wants to break up with you if you notice how they keep introducing you as their friend instead of boyfriend. Your girlfriend might now see you as their friend and that is why they are calling you such. For here, there is no longer a distinction between you and her regular friends.

Your relationship is no longer active. The two of you aren’t inclined to be romantic anymore. You no longer hug and kiss each other. Even holding hand is no longer done. She grunts or says “yeah” every time you tell her you love her. All those sweet and mushy stuff you do no longer happen and you have to persuade her into doing them with you.

When you do try to talk to her, she’ll start to give you excuses about a headache or some other problem. Once you start talking about problems in the relationship, she will immediately cut you off and introduce a different topic. The longer your girlfriend acts cold toward, the higher the chances that your girlfriend wants to break up with you.

If you keep on calling your girlfriend and the answering machine is always the one getting your call then this is another sign that your relationship is in trouble. Another sign would be constant criticism from her about little things that didn’t bother her before. She just keeps on complaining and no longer praises you.

If you notice all these things in your relationship then prepare yourself because your girlfriend wants to break up with you for sure.




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