Oct 6, 2011

What Should I do if My Ex is Dating Someone Else? Don't Worry, It's not too Late

By Clay Andrews


Considering how hard life is already, going through a break up would only add to the burden.

Losing someone important can be one of the hardest things to deal with. This only gets worse if you find that your ex is dating someone else. If you are in this situation then following may be the questions you are asking.

Q: I just found out my ex is dating someone else. Can be still get back together? A: The answer is yes - if your relationship with your ex lasted for a long time. Chances are your ex is still thinking of you even if they are with someone else. It takes a long time to achieve intimacy.

Your ex is not yet over from the recent break up, making it hard for them to deal with the new relationship which would cause it to end. This is why most rebound relationships abruptly end as people are not yet emotionally ready for a new commitment.

Q: My ex is dating someone else and I heard that they're serious. How could my ex move on that fast? A: People who just broke up usually speed up things a bit in an effort to bring their current relationship into the same footing as their old one. Simply put, they are using a new partner to continue the broken relationship.

Considering how a person is not yet emotionally healthy to enter a new relationship, this could only lead to disaster.

Q: Can I still get them back even though my ex is dating someone else? A: You and your partner used to be crazy with each other until problems start to come in which destroyed your relationship. The negative emotions which broke the relationship are still there. No matter how happy your ex may seem with the new relationship, the fact is that they two of you have history and they don't.

No matter how hard it is to think "my ex is dating someone else" the fact is that they still care for you little bit. It takes a long time for intimacy to grow. Your ex would also be making comparisons between the old and new relationship. This would only complicate matters further.




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