Aug 10, 2011

Is Your Marriage On Slick Slope Because Your Better half Doesn't Feel Loved?

By Sarah Scott


Now that your married, you do not feel as if you have to try really hard. If you don't show or tell your spouse how much you cherish her daily, chances are you're giving her lots of room to question your love. If you do let her know that you cherish her everyday and she still does not feel love, it's safe to say that she speaks a different love language than you.

Does Your Other half Need Confirmations to Feel Loved?

You can express your love to your wife by informing her how much she means the world to you. Other verbal expressions of love can be along the lines of "I love your cooking" and "out of every person in my life, you actually are the one I love most." When you use words to show somebody you adore them, add more depth and conviction to your words. Rather than informing her "I love you," also tell her WHY you cherish her. Many women who wants words of confirmations also want reasons why you feel that way. It will come off as more genuine and truthful when you let her know how you feel and give her a reason which explains why.

Does Your Spouse Need Special Time Spent With You to Feel Loved?

All fulfilling relationships need quality to together to cultivate their love. This means you take the time out of your busy day to spend some time with her. Whether it be a romantic dinner, taking a walk at night, playing a game of chess together or other activities that both of you can enjoy to do together.

When you spend time together, you are permitting open communication with your better half. When you and your spouse can speak without reservation and listen to each other, you are reinforcing your relationship.

Is Receiving Gifts Your Wife's Love Language?

Those who see present giving as an act of love are ot gold digging urchins. What comes to mind to many people about gift giving as an act of love is that you can't buy love. Well, for many of us, the concept of giving is a token of love and appreciation. It doesn't matter how much the cost of the gift (it could be a picked dandelion) your spouse will connect that object to your expression of love. To your spouse, your expression of love is worth a bit more than the object itself.

Does Your Better half Hunger for Physical Touch To Feel Loved?

When referring to physical touch it isn't just sexual intimacy I am talking about. If your other half likes to hug, kiss, be affectionate, have her hair played with or hold hands in public, her primary love language is touch. It is the sense of being physically close to you that makes her feel loved.

Remember that many people have more than 1 primary love language. If you don't figure out exactly what is needed for your better half to feel loved, your relationship and relationship is in trouble.




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