Jan 15, 2011

If You Want To Know How To Save A Marriage Look Inside Yourself

By Areelitaha Joahlanski


Many people want to know how to save a marriage; well the answer to that question is actually quite simple. You need to understand what being involved in a marriage entails.

When you enter into holy matrimony with someone you love, you two made a solemn promise to be with each other forever. No matter what lemons may throw your way you promise to engage and making lemonade. Marriage is not supposed to be easy, because marriage is a part of life, and life has its rocky roads.

What do you need to do in order to stop a marriage from dissipating into thin air? You need to follow the words that you agreed to on your wedding day. You need to truly evaluate what was said the true meaning behind it. Envision how you felt on your wedding day pictured to your one true love. Marriage should not be taken lightly, so why are you try to throw yours away? Many, think they hear what is being said but do not completely comprehend the words until after they have lost at saving their marriage.

For many people it can seem like a difficult task to reach inside of you and remember vows that were taken so long ago, for that reason we have created a step manual for you to follow to help you with this process.

Step one-Appreciate what your spouse does for you. Many people are so engrossed in their lives and what they have going on to fully understand how much their spouse truly does for them. Do not critique anything they do, or think what you do is better; you two are a unit act like one! Thank your spouse for everything big or small that they do for your family unit.

-Step two-Stop the arguments! Life is hard and can get stressful do not take it out on your spouse. They are going through the same thing you are.

-Step three-Come back home! Do not neglect the time that you have with your spouse. Jobs may sometimes take up more time than you anticipate, but take out a day to just spend time with your spouse. Let life pass you by for one day. Do not forget who they are and why you married them.

Do something on this one day together. It doesn? have to be fancy you could go to watch a movie, or go out to eat, or just hang out on the couch.

The steps to save a marriage are not hard to follow; you need to be the one to put your best foot forward.




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